Before Our Date...
I certainly do not expect perfection from you, as I myself am imperfect! Just a few of my (hopefully cute) quirks include my perpetually freezing feet, my tendency to sleep in, and my sub-par cooking skills. I’ll embrace you and all your blemishes, but in return, I ask for consistent mutual respect between the two of us. Please honour my boundaries, and I’ll always honour yours.
Below I’ve compiled a list of common questions. Please read through all of them before booking a date with me, to ensure that we’re on the same page before meeting.
WHAT SCREENING IS REQUIRED?
Screening is vital for me to feel safe meeting you. Please include your preferred method of screening in your initial email. I accept any one of the following screening methods:
- A photo of government-issued ID over email (you may blur all the information besides your name and photo for your piece of mind) as well as a selfie to confirm the ID is yours
- A LinkedIn profile with a reasonable amount of activity and followers
- References from two established independent SPs with websites and an online presence
Note: I understand that emailing sensitive information like an ID makes some people nervous. While I assure you that your information is for my eyes only, you may also show me your ID at our first meeting. In this case I’d ask that we meet at a public restaurant, coffee shop or bar. After I’ve looked at your ID, we can share a drink or meal to get to know each other a little, so I feel comfortable before departing.
WHAT SHOULD I DO BEFORE OUR DATE?
Don’t forget personal hygiene! You’ll always find me showered with fresh breath, and I’d ask the same of you. Feel free to excuse yourself to freshen up at any point. Please let me know if you’d prefer that I skip the perfume. (I never over-do it, but I do enjoy a dab of a subtle scent behind my ears.)
WHEN CAN YOU MEET?
With enough notice, I’m available any day of the week or weekend, at any time (within reason). To ensure that we’ll be able to meet, please try to give me as much notice as possible before a date! I’m a planner, and tend to prepare my calendar ahead of time. I typically need at least a week’s notice, but sometimes more!
WHAT SERVICES DO YOU OFFER?
Consideration is for my time only. Please do not have any expectation in regards to “service”. The nature of our time together is all dependent on my comfort level around you, and thus, it won’t necessarily look the same for everyone.
During our initial correspondence, keep in mind that I’ve never met you before, and so my comfort level with you hasn’t been established yet. I value politeness, and emails containing expletives will likely be ignored!
Once we meet, if I feel uncomfortable at any point, I’ll let you know. If you fail to cease unwanted behaviour, or if I feel unsafe in any way, I reserve the right to excuse myself without refund.
CAN I SEE YOU REGULARLY?
While I love meeting new people, there’s nothing I cherish more than seeing old friends. I’m happy to establish a schedule with my favourite people to ensure we see enough of each other!
Note: There may come a time when I realize our time together should come to an end. This doesn’t necessary mean you’ve done anything wrong, but just that the chemistry is no longer right for me.
CAN I SAY HI IF I RUN INTO YOU?
One of the things I love about companionship is the opportunity that a veil of secrecy presents. You and I can create a thrilling escape that is just ours. However, once our time together ends and we return to our lives, I ask that we both maintain a sense of discretion about our relationship. If our paths should cross in the outside world, I may give you a tiny wink, but I won’t approach you, and please do not approach me. Most importantly, do not disclose details of our time together at any point in the future, and neither will I.
CAN I REVIEW YOU?
I ask that you please respect my no-review policy. The connections that I forge with an individual are unique, and to review me as if I’m a product expected to be consistent from person to person is simply unrealistic. I’ve also noticed that many reviews, both positive and negative, often contain mistruths. In lieu of a review, I’d love an email with your appreciation instead.
Should you ignore my wishes to not be reviewed, I’ll likely decline future meetings with you.
HOW SHOULD I PRESENT YOUR CONSIDERATION?
Consideration should be in an unsealed envelope in plain sight upon my arrival. If we’re meeting in public, please hand it to me as discreetly as possible (perhaps in a gift bag) within the first few minutes of meeting. My rates are for my time only and are the same for “social dates”.
WHERE ARE WE MEETING?
I’m located in Toronto, Ontario. I’m happy to visit you, or host you at a downtown condo space. I’d ask that travel expenses be covered for meetings outside of Toronto.
I currently have no plans to tour. However, I’m now available to fly to you! Reach out to me via email with your screening info for further details.
WHO DO YOU MEET?
I’d be thrilled to meet you, regardless of your ethnicity, gender identity, or creed. I’m also available for couples! (And yes — I’m bisexual!)